Just an UGH da

I didn't post in advance ('cos who wants to hear me moan some more lol) but it was the dreaded dentist visit today. I had a cleaning and a crown. I was sure when I had booked the appointment it was cleaning first, then the crown and a filling. I go there and it was crown first, no filling and then cleaning. Anyone who has read my blog for a while knows I am absolutely in terror of the dentist (bad childhood experience). I usually take Xanax beforehand and use laughing gas when I get there. Just the change in what I had thought was happening threw me off completely. I was really nervous and anxious and just UGH. While I was having my cleaning the hygienist saw something else and they want to refer me to a root canal specialist. 

I'm not afraid to admit it but I cried in the car. I have so had enough of this. It doesn't seem to matter what I do, there is always something going on with my teeth. I took the referral but I'm going to think on it for a bit. I honestly don't know if we can afford it - at least not until this last lot is paid off. I sometimes think the providers think we have unlimited funds and if not, we can put it on a credit card that the credit card fairies just pay off.  

To top it all off, when I got home, I had a sneezing fit and now my nose is running and I keep sneezing. Either it's a cold or I'm allergic to something from the dentist. I suppose I'll see in the morning. 

As I said, I'm going to put it all to the back of my mind for a few days to find my balance once again. Tomorrow is supposed to be nice, at least later in the day, so I'm going to walk, craft and maybe sit in the garden. I'll do dailies, but I'm giving housework and any online selling stuff a rest

Photo for today - just daffodils starting to force themselves through the dead leaves at Asylum Lake. These had to be planted by the people who once farmed this land as part of the Michigan Asylum for the Insane. There are so many there that grow year after year and are a testament to how hardy these plants are. 

Back tomorrow and I will be in better spirits. 

Weekend

The weekend was quite a peaceful one. I did manage a walk on Saturday and Sunday. My foot was still hurting, but the weather was colder and my feet were freezing so I couldn't feel the pain that much. Not sure that's good or bad lol. I did stay off it most of the afternoons. 

I did a little bit of crafting, but the mess in the craft room is just putting me off (to be frank) so I worked a bit on sorting out some things elsewhere so I can perhaps get some things out of the craft room! I did do a bit of cross stitching. I did a bit of my beaver cross stitch (which I haven't shared in a while) and a bit more on the little kit that came with a magazine. I have a lot of these little kits and want to get a few of them done!

This is the weekend update. I have done a bit more but no photo yet

I am glad I did go out Saturday morning as the sunrise was absolutely beautiful. It's so quiet and peaceful there in the mornings and a perfect way to start the day when I'm up that early. Taken with my phone. 

Sunday was a lot chillier. As we've decided to try to go to some closer places, and we haven't researched really close ones yet, we went to a park up in Grand Rapids. It's a huge park 1400 acres. It has 18 miles of trails, a splash pad (in summer) a six-acre beach (in summer) and boat launches and such too. It has several ponds and there is a path along parts of the Grand River. We went on a favourite trail but have bookmarked another trail to do another time! 

The trail we went on was flat and really easy. Husband is just starting out walking again so we're trying easy to start with - better for my foot too. By the time we were done it was pretty achy and I didn't want to do any more walking!

You can see by the photos that everything is still quite brown looking. There are some closer parks I want to go to but I want to wait until they have some spring flowers in them. Hopefully soon!

Plans this week - to continue sorting. I have a half full bag of things that are ready for donation that I want to fill up by the end of the week. I can't believe we're almost done with March! Only a few more weeks until we see daughter and Baby A

Friday Again

The end of another week. Not a bad one in all. Hit and miss on the productivity, but I feel as though things are a little more balanced than they have been which is a goal of mine. I don't want to hyperfocus on one thing and get nothing else done!

Warning - bit of a moan - I've done something to my 'good' foot. It's really painful - OUCH - constant pain. It started about Wednesday when I was out walking and felt as though my sock was bunched up under the middle of my foot and I was walking on bunched up hard fabric. Got home and there was nothing there. The side of my foot seemed a bit hard and tender when I pressed on it. Thursday morning - ouch, just ouch. Getting out of bed and stepping on my foot was OUCH. I went for a little walk and could barely step on it the rest of the day. When I'm walking it feels as though I've got something stuck up under the arch. Not any better today. Husband thinks I might have done something to the tendon - maybe actually did step on something and messed it up. It wouldn't surprise me as you can't always tell what's under the snow. 

I'm going to see if it gets any better over the next few days. If not, I'm going to have to go and have it looked at. I can barely put any weight on it at all. I can't just sit. I'll go crazy. 

Moan Over. 

I did go for a tiny walk today. I'm not going to do a lot of walking over the next few days, a shame as husband and I had decided a nice walk would be good for Sunday. I don't want to make things worse than they are though so we shall have to take a little one. It was actually nice enough this afternoon to sit on the back porch for a little while. A deer had decided to take a rest in the garden and was laying down close to our fence with the neighbour. 

Made me smile. She was there for quite a while, at least until I went inside. 

I chatted with Baby A today again. We played dolls for a while. Just a little over a month until we will see her - something to look forward to!

It was my father-in-law's 85th birthday today so husband took him out to lunch. They are going out again tomorrow. I'm going to go to Asylum Lake and sit by the beavers' lodge for a little bit and then come home and craft for a while!

What are your plans for the weekend? 

Mid-Week

Cold again this morning. Dreary too. I did go for a walk, but I must admit it's getting to be a struggle to be motivated. Things are supposed to get warmer over the next few days though, so fingers crossed. I wasn't quite as productive as I wanted to be, but I did get my dailies done, some listing and I attended my camera club zoom talk, so not a bad day in all. 

The zoom talk was really inspiring. So much to think about. It was Paul Sanders . He worked at a large newspaper, had a breakdown, stepped down and found solace in photography. Such a good talk and I'm glad I attended. It gave me a lot to think about as I haven't felt really motivated in my photography either. I'm hoping it's just because the weather is getting me down!

Baby A was back in daycare today but as soon as she got home, she wanted to talk - though she suddenly got very shy and wouldn't chat at all to begin with lol. Daughter said she had demanded to talk to Nanny when she got home. She wanted to see her Grandpa and her Uncle. Once again, she did more hiding than chatting. She did say Goodbye Uncle, but only after he'd already left lol. Son-in-law was home today, but he's feeling better. He has to go to work tomorrow as he doesn't have any more time off (he doesn't have any sick time and only gets a few holiday hours calculated by how many hours he works).

Tomorrow, I'm chatting to my sister in the afternoon - usually a Friday thing, but it's her daughter's birthday on Friday so they are going out for a meal. I'm looking forward to chatting and seeing some photos of Spring from her end lol. 

Hope everyone is having a good week!

A Bit of This and That

Overnight there had been a little bit of snow and ice, just enough to make things a bit of a pain this morning. The car needed to be warmed up and the roads weren't great. I took the back way through our neighbourhood into the next so I could park and take a walk at Asylum Lake. It was brutally cold this morning. I think spring decided to go back to bed for a while! I didn't hang around for long. It was far too cold to stand still for long. I must admit that I'm getting a little tired of mornings like this. Always seems to be this way at Winter's End. I almost stayed home, but when I looked out of the back window it appeared that the beginning of the day was going to be a little sunny and sunshine is always good at this time of year. 

Sunrise from behind the Beavers' Lodge

The walk was brisk and pretty uneventful except for the three Great Horned Owls we saw. 

One of the owls. 

As I was pulling into the driveway daughter texted to ask if I was home. Baby A wanted to chat. I asked her to give me time to get my coat off and then we chatted for a couple of hours! She was feeling a bit better today though my poor son-in-law was home as he was sick! Baby A kept asking to talk to Grandpa or Uncle though they were both at work. It's really funny, because she doesn't actually talk to them if they come to the phone - she just hides! I think it's a bit of a game. She did call back later and see husband though she wouldn't talk she just kept hiding lol. 

I got my usual housework done - why does the weather always seem to be rubbish on days I'm going to mop the floor in the kitchen by the back door? When husband got home he took me to the post office as I didn't want to drive on the icy roads in the morning. By the time we went out, the roads were mainly just wet so if there is no more snow tonight, they should be okay in the morning - though there isn't anywhere I have to go lol. Things are looking warmer for the weekend. 

I did have time to work a bit on a new little cross stitch and to go up in the craft room for a bit (no cleaning up there today!)

In the plans for tomorrow - a walk, dailies, a zoom camera club talk in the afternoon, some listing and some time spent in the craft room. I am trying to do more varied things instead of hyper-focusing on one thing and getting nothing else done!

Monday?

I'm not quite sure where the weekend went! I was pretty sure I wrote a post between Friday and now, but apparently not! 

Saturday, I went for a walk by myself in the morning, ran a few errands - not what I'd planned, but we ran out of loo roll and that's something we can't do without lol. Later in the afternoon, we drove over to a nearby town where MIL's ashes are at a military cemetery. We took some flowers. I still can't quite believe she's gone. 

As Sunday was English Mother's Day, I bought some extra flowers to keep in the house in memory of Mum. My sister had taken some to her bench for me but I thought it would be nice to have some in the house to be able to look at and think of her. The ache is still there, but it's a little easier to think of the good times we had and not so much of that bad time. 

Sunday husband and I went out. Weather wasn't great but we managed a little walk, and it was quite peaceful as there weren't many people about. We both commented how lovely it was to have such a peaceful walk. 

A couple of the trees I really liked. I'm not quite sure what kind of trees they are. If you have any idea, please let me know!

There were a couple of people down on the beach here looking at stones and gathering some up. Husband and I have no idea what we're looking for and we mentioned it to one lady. I did say I'd seen some pretty ones. She commented that she and her friend knew a few of the ones they were looking for but also looked out for VPR - Very Pretty Rocks (stones). Made me laugh. 

Later I chatted with Baby A again. Had another chat with her today as last night she came down with a fever and had to stay home from daycare. We spent a couple of hours chatting and playing today! That certainly makes me smile. I love that despite the miles between us, even as this young age, we get to play together. 

I did go for a walk this morning. It was still windy and the temperatures had dropped enough that the rain had turned to pelty bits of ice and later snow. It was, again, quite peaceful out. I don't think I saw one other person as I walked around Asylum Lake. I did see beavers, muskrats, a mink, deer, an owl and lots of little birds. For a while there, I was wondering why I had even bothered to go out but as I walked around, I remembered why I enjoyed walking there so much even in bad weather. 

I did not get as much done around the house as I had hoped but talking with Baby A is so much more fun and definitely worth putting off any housework! I'm hoping she'll feel better soon but daughter said her fever was back up and she had said she was cold not too long after we finished chatting. They cuddled and she ended up falling asleep. Poor baby. We might be having another chat tomorrow!

Week All Done

I can't believe there's another week done and dusted. This one - don't I say this every week - has really flown by! Today was really blustery - anything not nailed down was flying around. I did go for a walk, but it was a quick one and we didn't see much of anything - people, birds or animals. Everyone/thing with any sense had battened down the hatches - I must admit when I thought of this phrase I automatically thought of  https://jabblog-jabblog.blogspot.com/ who would surely know exactly where the origins of this phrase and probably wrote a blog post about it lol. Anyway, things were pretty windy and chilly. Luckily, we haven't lost power or any of the big trees left in the garden. 

Things are supposed to ease up later tonight and then start up again on Sunday. We're in for a rollercoaster of a few days of weather from wind, sunshine, rain, clouds, high temps, low temps, ice and snow. All seasons rolled into about four days. I'm not going to complain too much as daughter is under a Winter Storm Warning for 5-10 inches of snow. 

Anway, walk today - there were lots of rolling clouds first thing this morning and a bit of sun. It was rather nice - or would have been if it wasn't cold and blowy. 

I had to make a few stops after my walk, then a bit of housey stuff, preparing some dinner in advance. I talk to my sister on Fridays - our clocks have sprung forward, hers haven't so the time between us is just four hours which pushes me into dinner time. I wanted to make sure I just had to reheat food. It's going to be the same way until the UK clocks change time. I had to google the time lol, just to be sure!

Later, after dinner and washing up, Baby A video called to chat for an hour or so. She took me behind the curtains once again where she showed me her baby and dressed it and put it on the potty. Rather fun! A nice way to finish the evening before settling down and watching some Poirot. I can't say I've actually watched them all and am finding them rather run!

Mid-Week - Crafty Bits

It did rain this morning. When I woke in the middle of the night, I looked at the weather and it said it wasn't supposed to rain, but by the time I woke up again early morning, the forecast had changed and it was perhaps maybe going to rain. After I'd woken up a bit, the forecast had changed again, and it was going to rain all morning. After my run to the post office, I stayed in. I did go upstairs and do a bit of crafting and a bit more of looking at the mess. The day seemed to go quite quickly. 

I finished the cross stitch I was working on (the fox). This kit was just terrible. It was that cheap one I bought at The Works (I think). The fabric to stitch on was too small and when I went to put it in the card they provided that was too small as well! I think I have a larger one somewhere (in the crafty mess). When I do find it I'll see if that one fits any better. 

I actually finished another little kit. This one came with a cross stitch magazine. I think I have a lot of these little ones hanging around. 

This one had plenty of fabric and the card fit well!

While I was putting these ones together, I remembered another little 'free' kit I had completed and never put the cards and stitching together so I did that too. 

Later in the afternoon, in a pile I had semi-sorted, I remembered a small jigsaw puzzle that I had (just 100 pieces) that I wanted to do and then get rid of (it might go to my walking friend).  Oh my. Now I remember why I don't do jigsaws anymore lol. I don't find them relaxing or fun. It drove me nuts despite being small! 

It was pretty though. 

At least one thing will be leaving the house lol. 

Tomorrow the weather looks better so I'll be able to get out for a walk and then there are some housey things I need to get done. Not my favourite household day. 

How is your week going?

I've walked both Monday and Tuesday. Not sure I will tomorrow as it's supposed to rain most the day. Heavy rain. If that does actually happen, it will be a day inside. My life really isn't that eventful, hence the blog title, so must of what I'm being doing is very mundane, a little bit of this and a little bit of that. I have done a meal menu for the week and already bought what food was needed. I am trying to do better about staying on budget and spending less in general. Tightening our belts financially was part of the plan but the rising cost of things and the thought of being overwhelmed with 'stuff' is bringing the issue to the forefront. 

I think once I get on track and break the habit/routine of going to certain shops things will be a lot easier. If I do get the urge to shop, I'm trying to shop from the things I already have. I really do need to get the amount of stuff in the house under control. The decluttering is continuing but in dribs and drabs. I know every little counts, but I need to let go of a little more.  Obviously, part of that is also bringing less stuff into the house. I've seen some people doing the 1 in 1 out or 1 in 2 out method of things. Is that something you've tried? 

Photos from the walk yesterday - the sun was still shining

Sunny Sunday Adventure!

It was all change on Sunday and the sun was shining. It was a little breezy though. We decided to go down to Indiana Dunes National Park. We stopped at Michigan City Lighthouse on the way down and took a little beach walk. There was still a bit of ice along the lakeshore despite the warmer temperatures we've had this week. There were quite a few fishermen all huddled on the rocks, trying to stay out of the wind. 

After that, we headed down to the park and took a walk around our favourite trail. It was so lovely! There were hundreds of Sandhill Cranes flying overhead and the frogs (called Spring Peepers) were out singing like crazy. It was really wonderful. It made me smile just to think perhaps Spring is around the corner. 

After this walk, we stopped at the Bailly Homestead . They have been doing the main house up for a while (the last time we went it had scaffolding around it) so we wanted to see how the renovations were coming along. It looked as though they were almost done and working on redoing the landscaping around the place. We are hoping to go back once the house is open so we can take a look inside. There is just something about the place I find really fascinating!

The middle photo is the back of the house - the front had toilets in front of it lol. The area was quite flooded, a combination of melted snow and the rains from the other day. 

Oh, I forgot to add that on the trail we walked there was an eagle sitting on a nest in a nearby tree! It is a new nest. Always fun to see!

All-in-all quite a lovely way to spend a Sunday!